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If are considering bringing your baby or child for Cranial Osteopathy be
reassured that it is a soothing and relaxing experience. Babies generally
become more relaxed during treatment, toddlers play throughout it without
noticing they are being treated, and older children often fall asleep. Also if
we assess a child and find nothing to treat then we will tell you this and no
treatment will be given.
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HABIT
If you are dealing with a child who has developed a bad sleeping pattern then
there are lots of ways to try to break the habit. Books have been written about “sleep training” so it’s well worth taking a look at the latest best sellers on the subject to find one
that suits you.
Each training method takes between 3 and 14 nights to cure the bad habits. The length of time depends on the age of the child. A child of 8 months and younger should be cured in 3 nights if habit is all that
is wrong. Beyond 8 months the length of time tends to increase in proportion to the child’s assertiveness. Here are a few of the well known options of which I know but please check
details of how to apply each method from other sources before trying them out
yourselves :
Controlled Crying
When your child cries go and check there is nothing wrong. Some sources advise picking them up for as long as it takes to stop them crying
then putting them down and leaving the room, some say don’t pick them up at all just let them see you for reassurance then leave the room.
Either way don’t say anything, give as little eye contact as possible, look confident and leave
the room as soon as possible. The first time you leave the room stay away for 5
minutes. After 5 minutes go back in and check as before, pick up briefly if you
did beforehand. Leave the room again this time for 10 minutes. Repeat leaving
them for 15 then 20 minutes. By 20 minutes they should have fallen asleep.
This is for children who are secure about being left, if the child has
separation anxiety then I would not suggest method for them. Nor will it work
if the child is being kept awake by discomfort or tension in their body, please
see table.
Checking Method
Same as controlled crying but keep the intervals between each time you return to
5 minutes.
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Elastic Band Method
In this method you do not leave the room so it is better for children with
separation anxiety. Hug the child and put them down, move around the room going
to the door and coming back to the bed or cot again to reassure with touch.
Stretch out the time between visits to the cot or bed but stay in the room
until they fall asleep.
The Baby Whisperer’s Technique
Pick up the child and hold them until they are settled, then put them down
immediately. If they start to cry pick them up again immediately, settle them
and put them down again immediately. Repeat until they no longer cry when put down. In the Baby Whisperer’s book she admits to picking up and putting down a child more than 300 times in
the first night (therefore not recommended if you have a bad back!). However,
as with any training technique, the second and third night are easier, with the
number of times you pick them up reducing dramatically each night until it is
nil.
Obviously, not all wakefulness needs treating. Waking during illness and teething is natural to a degree but should only last a
few days at a time. If it goes beyond this a bad habit may have developed or the illness may have
caused residual discomfort in the child’s body which may benefit from treatment such as Cranial Osteopathy.
And Finally…..
Consult all your friends and family, your Health Visitor, Doctor, Osteopath,
Homeopath and whoever else you trust. Take on board only the advice that seems
right to you. Keep trying until you are satisfied with your child’s sleep pattern as sleep deprivation is, quite literally, torture!
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The chart below is a guide to how much sleep to expect a baby or child to need
at any given age. Although I find it to be accurate I am not sure of its
origins. Remember your child may need less sleep than others (or more) if that
is a family trait, OR they may need as much sleep as suggested in the chart but
are not able to get it for a variety of reaons - see above table.
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